Thursday, August 20, 2009
Open Sesame!
What is this phenomenon of open relationships? I'm gonna try very hard to play fair. Very Hard. Open relationship is when two people are dating but are allowed to see other people, OR it's when you're friends with your sex buddy. Your friendly booty call. Of course, some are friendlier than others... and that's where the problems lie. When you're kinda dating your booty call. So what happens in these situations? Well first of all, the lines are blurred. Some guys wanna be 'out' with more booty calls than one, and start saying, grabbing, sucking and doing whatever the hell inspires them at that moment. Then call You, the kind of booty call, and bring all that to rest. In your bed. You start wondering why you're now going on dates, meeting friends, possibly family... and the booty call lines get fizzed. Sometimes, a booty call will book you for 8pm, and show up at midnight.. what has happened in the meantime? you sat tapping your foot. While they did what was on the menu, and kept you locked. Of course this runs both sides... but overall I just don't get it. I feel like open relationships are a mirage... to be continued as I learn more.
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I think people aught to set their own rules about their OPEN relationships. Its up to the people to honor those rules. It is also up to the people in the relationship to decide what they are willing to stand for and what they are not willing to stand for. But in my opinion RULES and a level of UNDERSTANDING are necessary for a successful open relationship.
ReplyDeleteNow when there is a misunderstanding, or when the RULES are set without a unanimous agreement from both (or depending on the circumstances) all parties involved in the relationship it is a DISASTER. It is doomed.
This is has been my observation.