One of the main differences between a basic bish + the real thing.

Is the will to serve. I've come to an understanding about myself. I love giving to those who give back. I disassociate myself from one way situations, because I've gotten myself involved in many of them. Sometimes I would wonder if I was talking to myself when I said "I loooove Valentines day. Don't let it pass if you expect to get results out of me" (or the yearly Birthday shpeel) + more often than not, I've dated guys who couldn't care less. What I don't get is this... people are a unit, we desire to exchange energy. Why would you expect someone to give + give you all the time without you giving back? Is that really all you have to offer? Some people blow my mind.
So, I'm watching a semi-famous person do a youtube cooking segment and she ends it by saying, "the next time your man says, 'Baby, can you make me a sammich?' you can do this" so I'm like, oskizzo. Nice. Then I scroll down and see a comment talking about "Thank God my man loves ME, not his maid" and I thought to myself <---- that right there is the difference between a basic bitch + the extraordinary woman. Limited edition. I've had some people talk shit about the way I treat my man, "Oh, you do too much. Doing all that will make him get used to it and he'll never do shit for you girl"... Some of them were right, but what can I say? Thobekile is a woman who caters to her man, + I won't change that about me just because I ran into yet another asshole. I'm a giver by nature boo... I love treating someone I love as the ultimate number one. If my man asks me to make dinner and there's nothing stopping me from cooking it up, I will. If my man asks me for a massage, I'm getting on it. I like giving. I think there are a MILLION benefits to saturating your relationship in lover-shit. Smothering each other in everything that makes a relationship syrupy sweet. I can't tell you how elated I am to be involved with a man who understands the importance of exchange, and thus does for me too. Scratches my back because I scratch his. I hate it when people think doing special things for your significant other is demoting yourself to the level of a maid. Why? Is it because I believe being with someone is not only about sex, and marriage and children or whatever the fuck else, it's also about how you treat each other as lovers? Because I believe the things I do on a daily basis really shows my man how I feel? If someone I love politely asks for a sammich, why shouldn't I make it? Especially when I know that the next time I need anything, anything at all, I know he's right there for me. There's nothing wrong with giving people what they deserve, and therefore getting you what you deserve. A Loving Relationship. Showing each other the real luxury in doing for others what they do for you. Scratch my back baby...