How to know if I want you

Since I was a young one, I've been accused of being a tease. Leading them oooonnn and on and on. (It's an art) and every time I was cornered to 'stop playing games'... 'I should know what it is'... I've come back with the legendary answer; If I want you, you'll know it. There would be NO questions what-so-ever. This is as honest as I can get. When I want a guy, there's no complications, no qualms, no mixed messages, no flirt-decoding necessary. It's just me + you today today today. Now, one day boys will understand that just because a girl smiles at you, flirts, and maybe texts you back... doesn't mean she wants your dick. I've entertained many people I'm not even REMOTELY attracted to this way. Out of boredom? possibly. It's also very possible I'm using you, and I already know what to do to make you think you might have a chance - for the sole purpose of getting what I want. Yes. I do this. And I'm not the only one. There was a time last year when I was confronted, and I replied my usual, and they said "whattabout this?" "whattabout that?", I sat there wondering what the hell made this boy think I want him? he laid out some interesting points...
1. I was enthusiastic to see him.
2. I was going out of my way to hang out.
3. I've been doing this kind of thing to him since high school... its time I stopped playing games.
This is how I reacted to these accusations. So what I was enthusiastic to see you? I'm enthusiastic to see all my members (especially the VIP's) of my friend zone! So what if I want to hang out? Going 'out of my way' to hang out would be going to Las Vegas to 'hang out' with you. Going up a few streets is usually what we all have to do to hang out. Meet at a common place. Duuuhhh. Number 3 is the bread winner here... "I've been doing this since high school" He's right. I have. And if I supposedly wanted him then why was I almost always dating someone else? He would drive me to the party where I would go and meet the guy I'm really interested in. It's not my fault if you don't know when you're in the friend zone... but it is your job to make sure you're never in the friend zone. So, how do you make sure you're never in the friend zone? Make YOUR intentions clear from the jump. And don't assume anything. Never assume anything. If you want me, and you've told me, and we're still just going around in circles then move on. Step. Believe you me if I didn't want you in 2002, I probably don't want you now (Unless you were the ugly duckling that has grown into a beautiful swan, and I'm quite happily surprised - which is almost never the case). Also, don't aggressively pursue me unless you're 100% positive I want it too. Don't push all on me and annoy the life out of me about getting together or campaign to come to my house unless you heard sure fire words similar to these spoken by MY lips directly to your ear; "I want you"... "I want you to myself"... "I want you to myself right now"... lol... the list goes on.