The Chase

I know I was supposed to finish 'Let's Play A Love Game' but I'm too PG13 (that's my code word for being R rated) to put what I specifically want in my ideal significant other online. So I decided to delete it.

THE CHASE.
I'm so INTO the chase, I like figuring out what goes where. When it comes to Hunting, silence speaks volumes. The less you talk the more they want, because mystery is a turn on. But only in the beginning. You can't keep pulling the mysterious string, (because eventually mystery looks like you're not interested, and your game will run out and you might find yourself missing a predator). I'm intrigued by an older man where I work. Why? Because He used to sit opposite me, and I remember him smiling at me unassumingly but never really saying anything. And he has hella fashion-sense. Fast forward two weeks and I'm going to work early (unheard of) to catch a glimpse of him because he now works on another floor. He says only a few words, but he maintains eye contact, remains a gentleman, and gives you 100% of his attention while he's with you. If that's the sample, Throw it in the bag. Coz I like it.
Now, let's say he acted like the blue eyed gay looking guy that has taken an interest in harassing me, he would be 1. running after me after work, 2. looking for me at lunch and all mini-breaks 3. Sound like he's selling something when he talks 4. Have no sense of fashion or MORE IMPORTANTLY... style. 5. DOES NOT TAKE NO FOR AN ANSWER. These little bullet points are all the ways you can get reported for bitchassness on the clock. Had he acted like the older man, things might have been different (Although I doubt it, if it wasn't his dysfunctional personality, it might have been his face) but I wouldn't be writing this blog about the difference between seduction and repulsion. The Chase, and The Late. If you want someone to want you, seduce them. Find out what your best features are and sell it, and you do this by MONITORING them, not blowing up their phone, talking to them all the damn time, following them around... and shit. Not hot. If only the blue eyed monster could chill the fuck out. Excuse my french.

There's so much to learn from Quietly Confident people. They don't really put themselves forward, but they make their presence known, in their stillness. Somehow everyone knows they're there, from their Swagger Vibes. All the men I've ever been SERIOUSLY into are Quietly Confident. Don't let that work suit fool you, they handle their business.